thank you fuzzi
you spat out the exact imagey-thingies into wordies that were in my head.

In fact I would go across the board at every company or organization , regardless
Nowadays corps try to lure and catch and keep.
Those smart enough to get away, why they simply get hooked by someone selling or "giving" exactly the antithesis.
Regardless of how benign or malignant they may appear.
it isn't about us, the consumer,
there is no "love",
no "relationship",
any more than how the dealer can lace the product more to be more "necessary" by his junkies.
Today..
It is just a matter of degrees of how evil the "dealer" is.