The link below offers an overview over some vendors in Sweden (in Swedish)

http://www.prisjakt.nu/search.php?r=1&s=nokia%20n9

I just ordered from clickok (which unfortunately does not have the best review but it looks like they ship to scandinavia for sure but also the rest of the world, and at least the order form did not take any issue with an adress in germany, but quoted a specific shipping cost.

Wish me luck!